Today on Weddings-ish, I am joined by one of my favorite couples on the internet: Matthew and Paul Castle. If you've ever smiled at one of their hilarious pranks, learned something new about blindness and accessibility, fallen in love with their sweet relationship, or become completely obsessed with Maple the Golden Retriever, then you already know why I couldn't wait for this conversation. What started as a Grindr connection between Washington State and British Columbia quickly turned into painting lessons, violin performances, beach walks, and a first date that left one of them secretly writing in a journal, "I think I just met my husband." Their love story is equal parts funny, unexpected, and deeply moving—and it's one I'm so excited to share with you.

What makes Matthew and Paul so beloved online isn't just their story—it's the way they move through life together. We talk about the laughter that has become a signature part of their relationship, the healing power of finding joy in unexpected places, and why millions of people connect with the way they navigate disability, partnership, and everyday life with honesty and humor. We also dive into their intimate destination wedding in Mexico, a celebration filled with rooftop views, last-minute surprises, mariachi music, and a commitment to being fully present. Along the way, they share how some of life's most meaningful moments are often the ones that don't go according to plan.

Before we wrap up, we dive into Matthew's experience growing up in a high-control religious community, the unexpected ways that childhood shaped his creativity and career, and why sharing that part of his story has resonated with so many people. We also get into some rapid-fire favorites—from dream dinner guests and last meals to coffee orders, karaoke songs, and love languages—before ending with some truly beautiful relationship advice as Matthew and Paul celebrate ten years together. It's a heartfelt reminder that lasting love isn't about finding a perfect person; it's about finding someone whose imperfections, dreams, and journey you're excited to share. Whether you're planning a wedding, building a marriage, navigating disability, chasing a creative dream, or simply looking for a little more joy in your day, this conversation is filled with wisdom, laughter, and so much heart.

Listen to the full episode of Weddings-ish with Jove featuring Matthew & Paul Castle on Love, Blindness, Marriage, and Maple now streaming wherever you get your podcasts.

In this week’s Ask Jove, Sloan and Jove chat about inviting your ex to your wedding, whether it’s an OK or NO WAY!

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