Arianna Davis Santana
In this episode of Weddings-ish, Jove sits down with the effortlessly brilliant and newly married Arianna Davis Santana, author, editor, and all-around career powerhouse, for a conversation that weaves together love, identity, and the beautifully non-linear path to “I do.” From navigating the deeply personal decision to keep her name while still honoring partnership, to sharing the behind-the-scenes chaos of a viral on-air April Fool’s moment, Arianna brings humor and honesty in equal measure. At the center of it all is a love story that didn’t follow a straight line. What began as a summer spark grew into something deeper, tested by time, distance, and a pandemic pause that ultimately brought everything into focus. It is a reminder that relationships, like careers, evolve and that sometimes stepping away is exactly what brings you closer to where you are meant to be.
That sense of intention carried into every part of their wedding weekend. Arianna shares how time apart gave her clarity and confidence, which made saying yes feel grounded and certain. The celebration in the Dominican Republic became more than just a wedding day. It was a full experience where cultures blended, guests connected, and every detail felt personal. From her dog Leo making a windswept walk down the aisle, to outfit changes that balanced style and comfort, to a playful “RJ Show” red carpet and a literary-inspired seating chart, each choice reflected who they are together. Layered with meaningful traditions and thoughtful moments, the weekend felt like an extension of their story rather than a checklist of expectations.
Looking back, Arianna is refreshingly honest about what mattered and what didn’t. So much of the stress she carried, especially around guest travel, was out of her control, while some of the details she spent the most time on barely registered in the moment. She wishes she had been more hands-on with certain elements like florals, but what stayed with her most was the feeling. Standing there, surrounded by people who showed up with so much love and support, was unlike anything she expected. Even the unexpected moments, like a missing bouquet or a light rain during their vows, became part of the magic. Her biggest takeaway is simple and practical. Be present, let go of what you cannot control, and maybe keep your hair and makeup team a little longer, because the way you feel in those photos is something you will carry with you long after the day is over.
Wedding Photos from Crespo Cruz Photo & Film
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