In this week’s episode of Weddings-ish with Jove, we’re joined by none other than the radiant and multitalented Jess King—mother, wife, dancer, life coach, and beloved Peloton instructor. From the moment she hops on the mic, Jess brings her signature blend of heart, humor, and heat as we dive into a conversation that’s as layered and lively as her love story with wife Sophie.

We kick things off with some playful astrology tea (Scorpios, this one’s for you). Jess shares what it’s like to live in a household with not one but two Scorpios—her wife and her son. Spoiler alert: it’s intense. But also illuminating. As Jess puts it, the fire and friction push her to grow, to sit with discomfort, and to lean into the lessons that love teaches us when we’re really paying attention.

From there, we dance through Jess’s professional journey—her rise to becoming the first openly gay female Peloton instructor and what that visibility has meant both for her and for the LGBTQ+ community. She gets real about what it’s like to navigate queerness in the world of fitness, how representation matters (especially when you’re married to a woman), and why being seen is only the beginning.

"You already have it all. It's about having the courage to turn inward and listen to what your intuition is saying."

Jess on following her path

And then—swoon—the love story. Jess takes us back to The Box (yes, that Box), where she first locked eyes with Sophie. The attraction was instant. The energy? Undeniable. But the beginning wasn’t all sparks and roses—Jess came on strong, Sophie played it cool, and what followed was a deliciously slow burn filled with flirtation, tension, and a few hilarious rejections. Jess’s storytelling is electric here, as she recounts the cabaret performances, the teasing glances, and the magnetic push-pull that ultimately drew them together.

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Of course, love stories aren’t linear. Jess opens up about her past, including a former engagement to a man that came with three proposals (yep, three) and more red flags than a soccer match. She speaks with refreshing honesty about what it means to choose yourself, to know your worth, and to walk away when something no longer aligns. Her journey is a reminder that love—real love—often requires us to let go of what we thought we wanted in order to make space for what we actually need.

And then, we land in the heart of the pandemic. Jess and Sophie, like so many couples, found themselves rethinking everything. What was supposed to be an engagement party turned into a spontaneous Zoom wedding—intimate, untraditional, and deeply felt. Surrounded by friends (virtually and otherwise), they leaned into the moment, trusting their instincts and choosing joy over perfection.

This episode is a gorgeous ride through queerness, intuition, chosen family, and the kind of love that doesn’t just challenge you—but changes you. Whether you’re planning a wedding, planning a breakup, or just trying to figure out what the hell you want—this one’s for you.

This episode during our “Ask Jove” Segment Jove talks with Sloan about handling wearing a non-white wedding dress!

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