Emma Gray Episode
Episode 29: Emma Gray
In the latest episode of "Weddings-ish" with Jove, listeners are treated to an awesome conversation with Emma Gray, a writer and co-host of the podcast "Love to See It." The episode kicks off with a light-hearted introduction, where Emma shares her excitement about being on the show, especially since Jove attended her recent wedding.
Emma and Jove talk about her podcast, “Love to See It” which has now been airing for 10 years and discusses modern day reality TV like “Love is Blind” through a feminist lens. Both Jove and Emma share a love of reality television and share tons of spoilers!
Created by: Bridget Badore
Emma reflects on her journey with her husband, Adam, detailing how their paths crossed for the first time back in 2012 while boarding a flight from Puerto Rico to New York City. At that time, Adam was chatting with Emma's friend Kate on OkCupid. Their initial meeting was casual, with no romantic sparks flying, but it laid the groundwork for a decade-long connection that would eventually blossom into a loving relationship. Not to mention, Emma was suffering from a terrible sunburn.
“It's a trojan horse into important things"
the importance of reality TV as a journalist
Fast forward to March 2019, when Emma and Adam matched on Hinge, reigniting their connection. Emma describes the excitement of seeing Adam's name pop up on the app, noting that their mutual friends had kept them in each other's orbit over the years. Their first date was a success, filled with nervous excitement and the promise of something special. Emma recalls texting her friend Laura afterward, expressing her surprise at how well the date went, which was a significant moment in their relationship.
Photos from Emily Gray’s Instagram
As the conversation progresses, Emma shares the challenges they faced during the COVID-19 pandemic, which coincided with their one-year anniversary. The couple navigated the complexities of navigating their relationship while adhering to safety protocols. Adam would walk from Manhattan to Brooklyn to see Emma, showcasing his commitment and love during a time when many relationships were tested. Their ability to adapt and grow together during this challenging period ultimately strengthened their bond.
Photos by: Haley Ringo Price
The episode also delves into Emma and Adam's wedding planning process, which was both a whirlwind and a labor of love. Emma describes her approach to wedding planning as a mix of excitement and overwhelm, emphasizing the importance of making quick decisions to avoid paralysis by analysis. She and Adam chose a non-traditional venue—a Chinese restaurant in New York City—reflecting their desire for a unique and personal celebration. Emma highlights the significance of the venue, not only for its food but also for its connection to their shared experiences in the city.
Photos by: Haley Ringo Price
Emma and Jove discuss the wedding day itself, from the emotional ceremony to the delicious food served at the reception. Emma's ceremony was particularly memorable, with family and friends packed closely together, creating an intimate atmosphere filled with love and laughter. The couple's choice to take photos in iconic New York locations, including the subway, added a personal touch that resonated with their shared history in the city. Emma's joy is palpable as she recounts the moments that made their wedding day special, including the heartfelt speeches from friends and family.
Photos by: Haley Ringo Price
As the episode wraps up, Emma reflects on the changes that marriage has brought to her relationship with Adam. While they had already built a life together, the act of getting married solidified their commitment in a way that felt meaningful and secure. Emma's insights into the wedding planning process, the importance of community, and the joy of celebrating love resonate deeply with listeners, making this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating the world of weddings and relationships.
Overall, this episode of "Weddings-ish" is a heartfelt exploration of love, commitment, and the unique experiences that shape our relationships. Emma's candid storytelling and Jove's engaging questions create a rich tapestry of insights that will resonate with anyone who has ever planned a wedding or experienced the ups and downs of modern dating.
To read more about Emma Gray’s wedding, check out the feature from the New York Times!
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