Alexis Bellino

On this episode of Weddings-ish with Jove, Jove sits down with Alexis Bellino — Real Housewives of Orange County alum, bride, mom, and woman deeply rooted in faith — for a conversation that goes far beyond a traditional wedding recap. From reality TV fame to finding love again after divorce, Alexis opens up about what it really means to design a wedding (and a life) that reflects who you are now, not who you were expected to be.

Alexis shares behind-the-scenes insight into her time on The Real Housewives of Orange County, including how different the casting process was in the early days of the franchise and how much her life has evolved since then. With honesty and humor, she reflects on marriage, divorce, motherhood, and the pressure of living personal milestones in the public eye — especially when faith and family are at the center of every decision.

When it came time to plan her wedding to John, Alexis knew one thing for sure: she wanted something completely different. Their ceremony broke away from traditional aisle structures and instead placed their blended family — especially their children — at the heart of the moment. In a powerful choice that resonates with so many modern couples, Alexis’ children walked her down the aisle, creating an intimate, circular ceremony that symbolized unity, healing, and chosen family.

The wedding itself was a deeply personal celebration filled with intentional design choices, meaningful entertainment, and a relaxed, joy-forward energy. From live music and unexpected performances to custom branding elements and a venue that reminded Alexis of her late mother, every detail reflected the couple’s shared values. As Alexis puts it, this wasn’t about perfection — it was about presence, love, and creating an experience where guests truly felt included.

One of the most moving moments of the episode comes when Alexis speaks about her faith and her journey as a mother to her transgender son, Miles. She shares how choosing love — unconditional, unwavering love — has shaped her understanding of Christianity and parenting. In a space where LGBTQ+ representation is often complicated, Alexis’ perspective offers compassion, growth, and a reminder that faith and acceptance do not have to be at odds.

Alexis also gets candid about wedding expectations versus reality, especially for couples getting married later in life or blending families. Her advice is clear: there are no rules. Whether it’s skipping outdated traditions, wearing what feels right instead of what’s expected, or redefining who plays which role on your wedding day, Alexis encourages couples to honor their truth and let go of “shoulds.”

Wedding Photography by: Jeremy Fraser

Throughout the conversation, Jove and Alexis dive into the emotional layers of weddings — how they can heal, unite, and mark a fresh chapter. Alexis reflects on how different this wedding felt from her first, noting how age, experience, and perspective allowed her to slow down, stay present, and actually enjoy the moment. It’s a reminder that weddings aren’t just about one day — they’re about the life you’re building afterward.

This episode of Weddings-ish with Jove Meyer is a must-listen for anyone navigating second marriages, blended families, faith-based weddings, or simply trying to plan a celebration that feels authentic. Alexis Bellino’s story is proof that love evolves, families grow in unexpected ways, and the most meaningful weddings are the ones that reflect who you truly are — right now.On Ask Jove, a guest asks Jove advice on what to do when their wedding venue double booked their date!

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